Nice looking two seater there . If the bar comes off, I might be interested in it. . Did any of the front panels get modified to clear it?
Agree with your dad on the flares, once you cut the guards, there is no going back (front is easy as you can fit new guards, rear is a nightmare!)
Wheels you can always change so no probs there, just hang on to the originals if you want to go back.
Looks good, very jealous, I so want a two-seater. Enjoy.