i personally have no problem with lurch, my grammar is really not that good and yes we have had quite a few blews over the past few year. the real problem is not you lurch it is the age gap in member, some of the members such as me and many others are quite young in there late teens to early 20s then there are other members 40+, its not that we don't get along its we are use to different thing, us young members are use to shortend down text and no grammar due to us using msn etc and the older members are use to good grammar ( the old fashion way lol ), the thing is we all have to find a medium and just stop bitching about it. as for you lurch you just have to be a little more leinient and stop deleting post as that was the thing that enjoyed me not the messags about the grammar.
cheers Pauly