So the order was placed last week, hopefully within a week or so Jeff has a new tailshaft for me!
He reckons that the stock rectangular diff input flange can remain, and he'll use a bigger UJ and end bit on the tailshaft (whatever it's called) that will mate to the stock input flange. Apparently the 8mm bolts wont be a problem (I'll replace my damaged old bolts with high tensile new ones however). Opted for the "all new" option. Jeff said I could save a couple hundred by reusing the skyline slip yoke and UJ, and I believe the end of the stock zed tailshaft... however since the UJ isn't replaceable (and mine already has signs of notchiness) I preferred to go with a new, serviceable yoke and the bigger diff-end UJ.